Pray for a loved one

The illness of a loved one affects us in a more severe manner than we care to acknowledge. We cannot escape the surrounding gloom and despondency. Can we do something to alleviate the pain, can we be of some help to the ailing person, is all we can think about. Whether it is our parents, spouse or child, I think a loved one suffering is as bad as suffering illness myself.

We all know that our parents have to go one day, yet that imminent event fills us with dread and despair. How will we cope with the loss? How can we survive without the guidance and blessing of someone above us? What can we do to delay the going away? Are we doing enough?

At such times there seems to be no other choice but to keep faith and pray. We need to look deep within to find reserves of strength to cope with troubling times. And think positive, which is very essential. May God give us the strength to cope with trying times.

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